Welcome, beautiful soul.

I am so glad you found your way here…

Alexandria Valline, MACP, LMHC - Sideways Glance Arms Crossed on Gold Couch - Soulana Sanctuary, PLLC

“I believe in the power of witness, and as I sit with you and we unfold the colorful tapestry of your lived experience, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery that reconnects you with your inner power, your voice, and your birthright to a life of vitality, connection, and joy.”

- Alexandria Valline, MACP, LMHC

I’m Alexandria Valline, MACP, LMHC — a gay, queer therapist, trauma survivor, and integrative healing practitioner. I weave together science, spirit, and story as a facilitator, writer, artist, and public speaker, committed to redefining how we relate to healing. I lead with the belief that when we heal the whole selfmind, body, spirit, and story — we change not only our lives, but the world around us.

With nearly a decade of experience in victim advocacy and a lifelong devotion to holistic healing, I guide people in cultivating self-efficacy and creating more fulfilling, connected, and empowered lives. I believe that healing happens when we feel fully seen, honored, and empowered. I know that every person carries the innate wisdom and strength to create a meaningful, soul-aligned life. My role is to help you reconnect with that deep knowing, trust it, and embody it fully.

We are unbelievably complex and unique beings, and true healing requires an approach that honors every part of us — mind, body, emotion, and spirit. I carefully blend somatic techniques with evidence-based modalities (ACT, CBT, DBT, IFS, and EMDR), helping you unravel and release the roots of distressing thoughts and emotions, locate where they live in your body, and move toward integration and healing. Through this process, we’ll work to process, release, and clear all that no longer serves you — so you can build a life anchored in your values, a life that makes your Soul sing!

MY TOP 5 VALUES — COMPASSION, EMPATHY, RESPECT, JUSTICE, AND INTEGRITY.

My story and how I came to this particular soul-inspired path…

Healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about remembering what’s true. I show up as a therapist with a deep commitment to authenticity, embodiment, and relational repair—honoring the wisdom of the body and the truth of who you are, beyond conditioning, trauma, or dogma.

As a gay, queer woman, United States Navy Veteran, and complex trauma survivor, I bring lived experience to this work—offering presence not from a place of authority, but from one of reverence. I lost my mother to suicide, and that experience brought me face-to-face with grief in its rawest form. I don’t share this for sympathy, but because I know how vital it is to feel met—human to human, nervous system to nervous system.

That loss, though profound, was one layer of a much longer story. I was raised by two active alcoholics in strict conservative environments—first as a Jehovah’s Witness, then in fundamentalist Christianity. These early experiences shaped my sense of self, safety, and spirituality. As I grew older and began to come into my queerness, I also began questioning the rigid dogmas I was handed. The deeper I explored my own identity, the clearer it became just how much harm can be done in the name of religion—especially to LGBTQIA+ folx and anyone who doesn’t conform to narrow definitions of worth, belonging, or truth.

It wasn’t until I was a sophomore in college that I finally broke free from organized churches and began to cultivate my own spiritual path. I became a seeker the moment I left—longing to make meaning of this life and explore what else could be true. I studied countless faiths, ancient and modern, mystical and earth-based, and slowly carved out a spiritual life that is deeply meaningful, radically honest, and entirely my own. My practice today is grounded in presence, connection, and awe, far from the constraints of organized religion. I’ve learned that it’s possible to be spiritually connected without spiritual control—and that truth lives in the body as much as it does in belief.

I spent my 20s in the art world, pursuing my dream of becoming a full-time potter and gallery owner. In time, my passions shifted. I became certified in personal training and spent several years helping people transform their relationships with food and their bodies—and, more importantly, with themselves.

In my late 20s, I felt called toward more service-oriented work. After considering the Peace Corps, I joined the United States Navy at age 31. I spent six years witnessing the effects of trauma on the human biome. My role as a Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Victim Advocate (SAPR-VA) for active duty service members further clarified the need for trauma-informed, nonjudgmental care—especially in systems that tend to silence or ignore pain.

It was from that place of conviction that I pursued my Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at Bastyr University.

The modalities I offer you are intentional and lived. I’ve spent over a decade in therapy myself and have always been drawn to transformational learning. My work is rooted in authenticity, embodiment, identity reclamation, and trauma recovery. As we sit together and begin to untangle the stories, wounds, and longings you carry, I offer you space to be witnessed in your wholeness—not as a problem to be fixed, but as a person remembering who they are.

The story behind my practice…

Soulana Sanctuary was born from a longing to create the kind of space I once searched for—where care feels human, not clinical. As a sexual trauma survivor, advocate, and member of the LGBTQIA community, I know the ache of seeking support that truly sees and honors the whole person. With over a decade of experience supporting fellow survivors, I’ve witnessed how healing deepens when held with compassion, presence, and respect. This sanctuary exists to expand access to soul-aligned support. While my path may not be the same as yours, it has shaped a devotion to share the tools and practices that have transformed my own life—with gentleness, integrity, and love.

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I help you make sense of your emotions and reality and thrive amidst the complexities of this world.

​​Outside of my work with clients, I find joy in reconnecting with nature and engaging in the elements that bring me home to myself. Hiking, walking, swimming in nearby lakes, and camping are a few of the ways I immerse in the natural world—usually with my sweet pup, Oakley, by my side. Forest bathing, sound healing, and creating music offer deep nourishment for my mind, body, and spirit.

I also love to dance—really dance. Give me Aurora or RÜFÜS DU SOL and I can move for hours, lost in rhythm, breath, and joy. Creativity runs through everything I do, but clay is where my soul speaks most clearly. Pottery has been a true anchor in my life, always bringing me back to center when the world feels loud.

You’ll also find me in the kitchen or out in the garden—two of my favorite ways to regulate my nervous system and pour love into something tangible. There’s something deeply magical about crafting a beautiful meal from your own harvest and sharing it with people you care about.

“This healing work is a consistent practice of moving toward our values and the most authentic versions of ourselves—so we can co-create lives that are deeply fulfilling, fully embodied, and rich with meaning.”

- Alexandria Valline, MACP, LMHC

education + credentials:

Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) WA state — License # LH 61626636

Master’s of Counseling Psychology | Bastyr University — 2021

Bachelor’s in Art History and Political Science | University of Northern Colorado — 2007

Usui Tradition Reiki Attunements & Training Level II | University Healing Arts, Carie McCoy, MACP, LMHC— June 2025

Usui Tradition Reiki Attunements & Training Level I | University Healing Arts, Carie McCoy, MACP, LMHC— March 2025

EMDR Basic Training EMDRIA Approved | Jackie Flynn EdS, LMHC-S, RPT-S, EMDRIA Approved Trainer — 2024

Disordered Eating Interventions: Addressing Body Image Concerns and Disordered Eating Behavior | Simple Practice Learning — 2024

Perinatal Mental Health Training | Perinatal Support Washington — 2023

Akashic Record Reading Certified Practitioner — 2023

Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) — 2021

Gottman Level 1 Certified | The Gottman Institute — 2021

Emotion Code Energy Work Certified Practitioner — 2019

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If you are ready to prioritize your mental wellness and take charge of your healing journey, I would be honored to be your guide. I believe in your power to heal, and I am here to support you every step of the way.

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